Thursday, September 18, 2008

A visit to an orphanage


Our agency was told that we need to move out of our current location by the end of the year, so lately part of my responsibilities included scouting out possible new office space. Today I was visiting a possible location in a most unusual building: the historic Loyal True Blue and Orange Home in Richmond Hill.

The Loyal True Blue and Orange Home was a large orphanage that opened in the 1920's. Today the building has been turned into a school as well as office suites for non-profit community service agencies. As I was being given a tour of the building, the person took me to a floor where the original layout has not been disturbed. He pointed out to me the original closet spaces where the children's coats were kept, and I even saw an old wheelchair that looked like it was from the "original days". It was like travelling back in time.

Perhaps because of my experience in adopting a child, as we stood in that old space I found myself quietly becoming a little emotional. I looked at the old, exposed brick walls and wood floors, and "saw" children who spent cold winter nights there instead of being in the warmth of their parents' homes. I looked out the window onto the large fields outside and wondered how many children stood in front of that very same window, gazing out on to that same field on countless Christmas mornings, feeling the loneliess of not having family.

On my way out I noticed the differet human service agencies that the building houses today. There are agencies that serve people with different illnesses and disabilities: Autism, Epilepsy, Learning Disabilities, just to name a few. Quietly, a gentle wish welled up inside: I wish my life can be useful in creating a world where children will no longer be abandoned, where people will not be stigmatized because of their illnesses, where we will finally learn, and take seriously, the dignity that is part of what it means to be human.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Well said.

Your blog is kind of a lifeline for me. It is inspirational and really helps me feel closer to God (which may sound ironic to you). Being a Christian means much more than just going to Church every week and reading the Bible. Those are important things for Christians to do, but being a Christian should also be about going beyond the confines of the Church and into the secular community and making a difference in the lives of those who may not share the same beliefs as ours. Most of all, we have to remember not to pass judgements on those who disagree with us. Being a Christian does not mean we are more superior than anyone.

Please continue to keep up this remarkable blog. You are such a gifted writer!

May God continue to bless you and your family.

Anonymous said...

I read your last few comments again and again, I looked at the photos that you posted, the little star, the thumb up lovely girl, the chocolate cookies...they are so beautiful, so lovely, so warm...

Today is my little girl's PA day, I am planning to take her on "the better way" too, what a coincidence. This morning, I also bought a present for her upcoming birthday. I hide it in my closet, she will love it because it is pink!

Keep it up, not only enjoy the love that is around you but I know that you are sharing that love with those around you....

Love to chat with you some other time.